The secret weapon to regain control in high-pressure situations is right under your nose…

Miles Everson • May 23, 2025

From the desk of Miles Everson:

Happy Friday!

I hope you’re having a great day so far.

I’m excited to share with you another useful topic today. Every Friday, I talk about health, wealth, well-being, happiness, future of work, book reviews, marketing, tips, etc. with hopes of helping you thrive.

In this article, let’s talk about the power of our breath.

Keep reading below to know more.




The secret weapon to regain control in high-pressure situations is right under your nose…

Imagine standing in the middle of a high-stakes situation—your heart pounding, your thoughts racing, your body tensing up.

It could be a big presentation, an unexpected confrontation, or even just an overwhelming day.

Now, picture having a hidden superpower that instantly calms your nerves, sharpens your focus, and restores balance.

The best part?

You already have it. You just need to learn how to use it.

That secret weapon is your breath .

The Power of Breathing

Breathing is something you do automatically, yet sometimes, you don’t realize the incredible impact it has on your mind and body.

When harnessed correctly, breath control can help regulate emotions, improve mental clarity, boost energy, and even enhance physical performance.

What’s more?

The beauty of breathing exercises is that they are simple, effective, and accessible anytime , anywhere .

This means whether you’re feeling overwhelmed, exhausted, or simply need a reset, there’s a breathing technique for every situation.

Let’s explore how you can tap into this powerful tool in different moments of your life.

  • For Stress & Anxiety: 4-7-8 Breathing

  • How to do it:

  • Inhale deeply through your nose for 4 seconds.
  • Hold your breath for 7 seconds.
  • Exhale slowly through your mouth for 8 seconds.
  • Repeat for a few cycles.
  • Why it works:

    This technique slows down your heart rate and activates the parasympathetic nervous system (PNS), which promotes a state of calm.

    This is especially helpful for moments of anxiety, stress, or even when struggling to fall asleep.

  • For Deep Relaxation & Sleep: Diaphragmatic Breathing (Belly Breathing)
  • How to do it:

  • Lie down or sit in a comfortable position.
  • Place one hand on your chest and the other on your belly.
  • Inhale deeply through your nose, letting your belly expand.
  • Exhale slowly through your mouth, feeling your belly fall.
  • Continue for a few minutes.
  • Why it works:

    Belly breathing engages the diaphragm and encourages full oxygen exchange, which naturally slows your heartbeat and promotes relaxation.

    This is perfect for winding down after a long day or preparing for a restful sleep!

  • For Focus & Mental Clarity: Box Breathing (Square Breathing)
  • How to do it:

  • Inhale for 4 seconds.
  • Hold for 4 seconds.
  • Exhale for 4 seconds.
  • Hold for 4 seconds.
  • Repeat the cycle.
  • Why it works:

    Box breathing is a favorite among athletes, military personnel, and high performers because it regulates breath control, clears mental fog, and increases concentration.

    It’s an excellent tool for staying focused during work or before a big decision.

  • For Energy & Wakefulness: Breath of Fire

  • How to do it:

  • Sit up straight with a relaxed belly.
  • Take short, rapid inhales and exhales through your nose, keeping your diaphragm engaged.
  • Continue for 30 seconds to 1 minute.

    Why it works:

    This fast-paced breathing technique stimulates the nervous system, increases oxygen flow, and wakes up the body.

    It’s like a shot of espresso—perfect for when you’re feeling sluggish in the morning or hitting an afternoon energy slump!

  • For Emotional Balance: Alternate Nostril Breathing (Nadi Shodhana)

  • How to do it:

  • Close your right nostril with your thumb and inhale through your left nostril.
  • Close your left nostril with your ring finger and exhale through your right nostril.
  • Inhale through your right nostril, then switch and exhale through your left.
  • Repeat the cycle for a few minutes.
  • Why it works:

    Alternate nostril breathing helps balance both hemispheres of the brain, reduces stress, and promotes emotional stability.

    This is helpful for moments when you’re feeling overwhelmed or need a mood reset.

  • For Physical Endurance & Performance: Pursed-Lip Breathing
  • How to do it:

  • Inhale deeply through your nose.
  • Exhale slowly through pursed lips, as if you were blowing out a candle.
  • Repeat at a steady pace.
  • Why it works:

    This technique increases lung efficiency, regulates oxygen intake, and helps maintain stamina during physical activity.

    It’s particularly useful for athletes, singers, or anyone engaging in endurance exercises.

I encourage you to try these breathing exercises by following the steps outlined above!

I’d also appreciate it if you could message me or leave a comment on this article about your favorite breathing exercise among those on the list, or your experiences before, during, and after trying them out.

I’d also appreciate it if you could message me or leave a comment on this article about your favorite breathing exercise among those on the list, or your experiences before, during, and after trying them out.

You can also let me know if you know another breathing exercise that wasn’t stated here.

You see, breathing exercises are a powerful yet underrated tool for improving overall well-being.

Whether you need to calm your mind, boost energy, enhance focus, or simply regain control in high-pressure situations, your breath is always available to help.

The best part?

You don’t need any special equipment or extra time—just a few mindful moments to practice!

So, the next time you find yourself feeling overwhelmed or drained, remember: Your secret weapon is right under your nose .

Together, let’s all breathe our way to a healthier version of ourselves!

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Miles Everson

CEO of MBO Partners and former Global Advisory and Consulting CEO at PwC, Everson has worked with many of the world's largest and most prominent organizations, specializing in executive management. He helps companies balance growth, reduce risk, maximize return, and excel in strategic business priorities.


He is a sought-after public speaker and contributor and has been a case study for success from Harvard Business School.


Everson is a Certified Public Accountant, a member of the American Institute of Certified Public Accountants and Minnesota Society of Certified Public Accountants. He graduated from St. Cloud State University with a B.S. in Accounting.

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